Saturday, May 11, 2013

Goodbye Mumbai, Hello Kolkata



When my phone got filled to capacity after the deluge of new numbers, of movers and packers, new schools in Kolkata I needed to check with for my son, new colleagues at my new office, new bosses, new HR managers, I decided it was time to delete a few numbers from my Mumbai days. I needed more space and in any case I wouldn’t be calling up some numbers in Mumbai ever again.
So I thumbed through them in alphabetical order, deciding which ones I could dispense with. The very first number, saved as A, was my very own in Mumbai, strategically saved to avoid calling another’s phone unwittingly. Every time I boarded that can of sardines called local train, I’d get crushed amid humans jostling for space and my phone would by default dial the first number saved under A. I’ll soon have to replace the A with my new number in Kolkata so, I thought, I could delete the Mumbai number. But it had become so much a part of my identity, my password when I went to surf the net at my neighbourhood cybercafé in Mumbai. Maybe it could be retained, there were so many sentiments attached.
Next came my landlord’s number in Mumbai, the retired cop from Bahrain who made it possible for me to live four of my five years there without involving any broker. We paid no commission to any broker, mutual trust was our interface. Often, I paid him the 11-months’ rent more than a week after we went together to renew our lease agreement. I would pay for the court papers and to the typist who put our arrangement in words, while he would bribe the cops to approve the same without the necessary formality of verification. When I left, he and his wife told me to tell him in advance should I ever return to Mumbai and they shall ready their house again, maybe ask their tenant to vacate, for us. There was no question of deleting his number.
Then came the mother of a patient who shared the room with us when my mom was admitted for a knee-replacement. She at first avoided us when she heard that my mother was a doctor. But, gradually, on realising that we were as shocked by the hospital staff’s curiosity to know if ours’ was an insurance case and when an expert insisted that my mom needed a pacemaker to weather the knee-replacement surgery, she befriended my mom. On learning that I worked for a newspaper, she asked me if I could solve a problem she faced at her office. When I realised I would not be able to do so, she understood, sharing with me an experience of hers, years ago, when she found a nail inside a cola bottle. She rushed to a newspaper office, the bottle in hand. She hoped to see its photograph in the next day’s papers but instead got a call from the cola company that evening, saying they wanted to compensate her for the unfortunate incident. It’s ironical I am naming neither the cola company nor the newspaper office she approached. I’m not in touch with her any more, but will retain her number, and maybe let her know my new one soon.
There were names of some editors of other publications, which I should retain, for I keep getting calls from friends looking for a new job, asking for such contact IDs in Mumbai.  Numbers of correspondents from an earlier organisation I worked for in Mumbai, who still remember me every Eid or Diwali.
 There were numbers of brokers I had saved prefixing ‘broker’. I had no need of them for the last four years in Mumbai, but they remind me of my early days of struggle, you need those numbers the moment you land in Mumbai with a new job.

 The number of the man who sent us home safely, after office every day at my last office in Mumbai. It’s difficult to forget his smile, even if he sometimes made us wait for an hour before there was a car-a-quorum in the direction of our home. The last time I took a drop home, he too boarded the car as he had to go some place beyond mine, like he often did. When I got off at my place, I told both him and the driver, ‘Phir milengey’ I know not why. And he too replied, ‘Phir milengey’.